Gifty Anti
Gifty Anti

Screen Goddess , Oheneyere Gifty Anti has confessed that indeed she is not having a perfect life as people might thnk of her , nanansem.com can report .

According to the 51 year old , She is does not have a perfect life as many have thought, she says she had hoped to achieve more at her age but that is not the case.

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Taking to Micro Social media Blog specifically Facebook, the much respected Presenter said all she does is to prepare her daughter, take her to school, go to work, pick her up later in the day and take her home.

According to Gifty , She can’t really recollect the last time she took herself out to chill and have fun .

Gifty added that it used to bother her a lot and she was always hurt when she sees her husband come and go as he pleases and she on the other hand was always stuck home.

She however encouraged every single woman in a similar situation to make the best out of every situation just like she has done.

Her post read :

Knock knock 😀

Anybody here? Well I know it’s late, but I am burdened to share something with you. Sometimes when I read through the comments, I realize some of you think I am the happiest, luckiest, most fulfilled and maybe financially sound woman alive 😳😀😀😀Well, I am not!!Listen, the life I have now at age 51, is not the life I had hoped for. No. I had bigger dreams and aspirations!!!Do you know my life now? Ok let me tell you!!1. Drop HRH at school2. Go to work3. Pick up HRH4. Go home. That’s my life. No outing, no chilling, no parties, no visiting friends or even family. I stay with HRH when we get home till the next morning and the cycle continues!!I have had to give up certain opportunities because of this ‘fixed’ routine I have. It hasn’t been easy for me. I don’t even remember the last time I went out to a restaurant or nice place to eat or chill 😀😀. HmmmInitially, it made me angry! It made me sad and I was always unhappy. It frustrated me. It was painful seeing my husband come and go as he pleases while I am stuck at home with HRH. I was always moody and hurt. *You will get more fylla in my upcoming book Room 5005*But I realized it was affecting my miracle baby girl. I therefore, made a conscious and deliberate decision to make the best out of the situation I find myself in. I accepted that this is a sacrifice I have to make at this stage of my life. I made everything fun and tried my best to see the positive side of everything. Because one thing I hate in life is pretense. If I am going to be able to inspire, motivate and charge others to be happy, then I have to be a happy and fulfilled person too. So I worked on myself. It took some time but I did it. I still have my low, sad, lonely and frustrating moments sometimes. But I do my best to snap out of it. I know my situation now is temporary and it will pass. It will get better. HRH will grow and we can go to places together 😀. Some of the pictures you see me post everyday, are influencer photos promoting a dress or something.. And instead of posting just the photos, I decide to use the opportunity to encourage, inspire, motivate or make you laugh 😂So you see, I don’t have it all. No I don’t. I am a hustler just like you. The only difference is that I have a platform, a voice and ‘national and international’ presence I am just a woman who has decided to make the best of her current situation and tries to make the best lemonade out of the lemons life has given me!!!So before you go to bed and when you wake up, Know this….You can live your best life with the little you have. Marriage, children, money, job etc can’t give you happiness if you don’t learn to be a happy person. Lack of these things 👆🏾can make you sad and miserable sometimes, but you can still live your best life without them. I am not glowing (and yes I know I am glowing😀) because I am married and have a child. My glow is not marriage ‘induced’😂I am glowing because I decided to make the best of the life I have now and be happy!!I hope this conversation can help you find some peace and happiness within. And oh, my Super Crazy Faith in God always adds a special flavor to it all. One day, you will also tell your story.

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