Frustrated woman..
Frustrated woman..

Dear Nanansem.com, I write to you with so much bitterness in my heart. I will hit 30 very soon and I met my husband 6 years ago and introduced him to my mum. Everything was going on well until I got pregnant. Then my mum advised me to abort since the society will laugh at her as a single mother who could not raise a good child and we agreed and aborted the baby. Since my husband was not financially stable at that time, even though I was working along the way I got pregnant again and this time around we decided to keep it because we felt we were ready but then again, my mother stood against it and even decided to end her life if I keep the baby. So, I aborted the child which my husband did not hesitate.

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Hmmm now I told my man that “before anything we need to be serious and settle”. can you imagine that 4 years into the relationship which was just last 2 years my man landed a very juicy deal which changed his life for Good. So immediately he came to see my mum to officially announce to her his intentions for me only for my mum to say He’s an “Ewe” so she can’t accept and I just did not understand the whole scenario. I felt my mum was going mad or something. So, after 4 years and two (2) abortions this woman waited to tell us this. I loved my man so much that I was willing to do anything for him so I stood against my mum’s will and reported my mum to my uncles and lo and behold in 2019 April we got married.

Can you believe my own mother came to my wedding and left before I said my vows and at the reception she was nowhere to be found? Everyone was just shocked by her behavior, so I had no option to ignore her behavior. After the marriage everything was okay until some days ago, my husband some old Samsung he used to use way back. But because he got a new phone, he abandoned that one and so I was doing a clean up at home and came across it and because of the kind of work I do I needed a spare phone. So, I decided to try it if It could work and I putted it on charge for sometime and boom it was working. I then placed my new sim into it and then setup everything and since there was an old WhatsApp account on it which was my husbands account messages started popping up since the mobile data was on.

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I just couldn’t believe my eyes, not knowing my mum who gave birth to me was dating my husband before we got married and then she didn’t want us to have kids because she claimed my husband’s attention will be shifted away from her. I was just shaking so I decided to wait when my husband comes then I check his phone to see if they are still dating after we got married Hmmmm lo and behold the messages I saw was too much for me. My mum was still sleeping with my husband. I saw naked pictures of her in their chat and she was praying that I die so she takes my place. Herr, my own mother ooo. As at now I want to end my life. My mum had me when I was 20 years now and now, she is 50 years now but she looks younger.

Please what do I do?

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